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THE ROAD NOT TAKEN by Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

高中時候很喜歡英文課本上的這首詩,它成為日後
當我在做人生重大抉擇時,總會想起用來堅定自己
信仰,下了決定,就不回首了,即便兩條風景都一樣
美麗明媚。

卒子一過河,就沒有回頭的路。

該怎麼說?我常想,若是很多人都很幸運的找到他
一輩子喜歡做的事,譬如說,從某個問題裡的四個
選項中,目光無誤選出他要的答案A。那我會說,我
的人生選擇大概是,從四個選項中,逐一刪除,挑出
一個我裡頭最甚滿意的答案,所謂刪去法。
可是咧,若是單純刪去法就好了,偏偏我的腦袋瓜兒裡面,
還會很奇怪的會迸出很多除了A,B,C,D以外E,
F,G,H......。所以,下什麼決心,一股作氣作什麼,
當然可以很努力去做。但嘖嘖嘖,說到下決心之前的"抉擇",
可真讓我想到捶心肝,每天不得好眠。

腦袋裡總是會有千奇百怪,成千上萬種的選擇,滿腔熱血想著
世界上充滿了許多可能性。也常是,我在想,我個人
相當善變的原因(全部歸結於我超級無敵典型的雙子
座AB型,哈)。我自己想法到是,計畫可以重新擬定,但不要
忘記目標。目標自在人心,就見仁見智了。我的目標通常不是
非什麼職業/產業不做,非什麼公司不進的具體目標。所以咧,
在目標一致情況下,隨著環境改變與時局變化,我驚人的想
像計畫就不斷擬定。

最後,我告訴自己。
人生呢,說穿了,就是一連串的選擇,沒人能保證哪條路好。
沒人能給你,任何保證。
能給自己保證的,只有自己。

總之,鏘鏘鏘,又到了要做抉擇的時間了。
下好,離手。









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